On this episode of This vs. That, we talk with Joe Keller about confronting versus covering in love. Joe has been in ministry and leadership development for over 20 years and currently serves as the executive pastor at Grace Baptist Church in Santa Clarita, California. We define what it means to confront in love, and[...]

On this episode of This vs. That, we have a conversation with Ellen Dykas about the topic of adultery. We discuss the balance between knowing too much versus knowing just enough when it comes to adultery or pornography within a marriage. Ellen navigates this heavy topic with ease and provides insights on how to evaluate[...]

On this episode of This vs. That, we dive into a discussion about Healthy Emotional Expression versus Being Controlled by Our Emotions with special guest Alasdair Groves. As the executive director of CCEF and a faculty member and counselor, Alasdair is well-versed in the topic at hand. We explore the pitfalls that Christians often fall[...]

On this episode of This vs. That, we sit down with Jared Kennedy to discuss Punishing vs Godly Discipline in parenting. We delve into the distinction between law and gospel, the purpose of correction, and the importance of starting with the gospel in our own hearts before disciplining our children. Jared shares practical advice on[...]

On this episode of This vs. That, we are joined by Dr. Kristen Kellen, associate professor of biblical counseling and associate Director of the Doctorate of Education Studies at the Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary. We discuss the important topic of gossip versus godly sharing and how to discern between the two. We explore the definition[...]

On this episode of This vs. That, we are joined by Curtis Solomon, Executive Director of the Biblical Counseling Coalition, to discuss virtual vs. in-person counseling. Curtis shares his insights on the primary concerns of those who may be skeptical of virtual counseling, such as the role of the local church and the motivation behind[...]

On this episode of This vs. That, we sit down with Jana Jenay Connor, a writer, Bible teacher, and host of the Living Single podcast, to discuss the topic of longing versus trusting God in singleness. Whether you are married or single, this conversation is important and relevant. Jana shares her personal experiences and insights[...]

On this episode of This vs. That, we explore the topic of self-care versus wise Sabbath with special guest Rusty Mckie. Rusty is a spiritual director, author, and founder of Steadfast Ministries, which exists to help others stay grounded in Christ. He also serves as a counselor with Anchored Hope. Throughout the episode, we explore[...]

On this episode of This vs. That, we sit down with Jonathan Holmes, the founder and executive director of Fieldstone Counseling and pastor of counseling for Parkside Church. We delve into the topic of releasing friendships in a godly way versus sinfully walking away from friends. Jonathan shares his insights on the value of friendship[...]

On this episode of This vs. That, we talk with Dr. Michael Keller, founding and senior pastor of Redeemer Presbyterian Church, Lincoln Square in New York City, about deconstructing versus discernment. We explore the broad lexical range of the word deconstruction and the importance of starting with assumptions based on scripture when questioning our faith.[...]

In this episode of This vs. That we share a preview of what's to come in season 2. ----- This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical[...]

On this final episode of This vs. That season 1, we discuss the tension between godly striving and works-based sanctification with Dr. Joel Muddamalle, Director of Theology and Research for Proverbs 31 Ministries and Lysa TerKeurst. We explore the motivations behind our actions and the importance of a theology of remembrance. We also delve into[...]

In this episode of This vs. That, we talk with Shane Barnard and Shane Everett, better known as Shane and Shane. They discuss the topic of Performance vs. Worship and how it's relevant to every believer. The conversation also touches on the concept of corporate worship and how it's a unique opportunity to lift our[...]

On this episode of This vs. That, we dive into the topic of parenting with special guest Melissa Kruger. Join us as we discuss the difference between control and discipleship in parenting and how to navigate the transition as our children grow older. We explore the importance of understanding our own hearts as parents and[...]

On this episode of This vs. That, we dive into the topic of Divine Sovereignty vs. Toxic Positivity. We discuss the trending phrase of toxic positivity and its impact on our lives, and why it's important to take a step back and consider whether we're truly trusting in God's sovereignty or just trying to be[...]

On this episode of This vs. That, we chat with Ronnie Martin, about the difference between self-awareness and navel gazing. Ronnie shares his personal experience with introspection and how he combats its tendency to become all-consuming. From intentional curiosity in other people's lives to prayer and discernment, we discuss practical tips for cultivating godly self-awareness.[...]

In this episode of This vs. That, Dr. Lainey Greer joins the conversation to discuss the balance between caring for our bodies and idolizing them. We talk about the misunderstanding of the body in Christian circles and the importance of a biblical understanding of the body. We also discuss how caring for our bodies plays[...]

In this episode of This vs. That, we talk with Dr. Ed Welch about the relationship between discipleship and counseling. We explore the similarities and differences between the two, and emphasize the importance of understanding when to seek counseling versus when to seek discipleship. We also discuss the generational differences in mental health language and[...]

In this episode of This vs. That, we talk to Brad Hambrick about the important topic of manipulation versus influence. Brad serves as Pastor of Counseling at the Summit Church in Durham, North Carolina. He also serves as assistant professor of Biblical Counseling at Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary. He's a council member of the Biblical[...]

In this episode of This vs. That we talk with our friend Deepak Reju about the topic of Anxiety vs. Fear. We discuss the spectrum of anxiety, from low-grade anxiety to panic attacks, and the words associated with anxiety, such as worry, stress, and concern. We also try to highlight distinctions between fear from anxiety[...]

In this episode we introduce This vs. That, a podcast where we look at what we think and why we think it.  Our first episode launches April, 5th. So be sure to subscribe and get every episode delivered directly to you. ----- This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope virtual counseling.